WAILING CITY: September 2025

Wailing City Spotlight: Interview With Stuart Fensom of My Druthers

Published September 4, 2025

Interview by Meghan Killimade

Thanks for chatting with us Stuart! You’re no stranger to the Wailing City Spotlight – we did an interview in March of 2023 when you were performing in Rogue March – how and when did My Druthers come about and who are the other members that have been playing with you?
That’s right! Good to hear from you again. Yeah that duo didn’t work out unfortunately, but it paved the way for what we’re doin now so no regrets. My Druthers was forged from those ashes, and we’re more of a collective now - It’s myself and any combination of like one to five other dudes…keeps it fluid and fresh I really dig it. Plus I’ve known all these guys forever and love each & every one of ‘em: Dan Spurr: banjo, vocals; Logan: guitar, vocals; John Grimaldi: guitar, vocals; Jeff Butler: fiddle, mandolin; Charlie McShane: vocals, maybe bouzouki someday.

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Published December 2024

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"There are a staggering 64 documented live music performances in my home of New London county, CT today alone! The population of this county is only 268,805 and it is only 772 square miles. That is an incredible saturation of venues hosting live music and is a stark contrast to places I've lived in the past! You would be hard pressed to find anywhere else in the country that has so much live music. Amazing really! Thank you for the hard work documenting and promoting Wailing City!"
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- RICK KOSTER (The Day) Published April 03, 2014

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